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After School Babysitter Notice Period?

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roses2 · 21/09/2021 10:56

I've got an after school babysitter who started two weeks ago and spends ~2 hours per day / 10 hours per week with us. It's not going well and I'd like to end the agreement. Is it normal to give a notice period? We don't have a formal contract. I really don't want her looking after the kids once I advise her I'm ending the agreement. The main reason why I want to end the agreement is because she is constantly glued to her phone. I've asked her not to use the phone but she still uses it according to them.

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Woeismethischristmas · 21/09/2021 10:58

I’d just tell her it’s not working out and you won’t be needing her anymore, pay her what she’s due.

roses2 · 21/09/2021 14:18

Thanks. I've got an interview with another babysitter today so see how that goes then let the existing one know it's not working. I pay her £12/hour and expected better engagement with the kids than what I'm getting now.

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crazyguineapiglady · 21/09/2021 17:00

Is she self-employed or are you employing her?

Asleanna · 21/09/2021 22:13

After school babysitter at £12 per hour? It sounds like you've got a nanny! And a bad one at that.

roses2 · 22/09/2021 07:01

Unfortunately that seems to be the going rate these days. It's almost impossible to find someone who has availability every school day and I'm in zone 2 London!

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nannynick · 22/09/2021 07:11

They have worked for less than a month, so I do not think that Statutory Notice applies: www.acas.org.uk/notice-periods/notice-when-being-dismissed-or-made-redundant

Have you told them that you don't want them using their phone? It is hard to find people to do such short hours, so addressing the issue may result in you keeping them on. If it is not a fixable situation, I would pay them for work done and perhaps through to end of the week.

GoWalkabout · 22/09/2021 07:44

I'd give them a £20 and say circumstances have changed and you won't be needing them.

custardbear · 22/09/2021 08:46

She'd officially be in her trial periods wouldn't she ? In which case I think either party can part waves, perhaps check officially though

roses2 · 22/09/2021 09:02

Yes I have asked her to stop using her phone but given she's on it constantly it's a hard habit to break. In her first week she asked if she could also collect another 4 year old child and look after him along with my children. When I asked her where they would go and what her new hourly rate is she replied she hoped she could bring the new child to my house and her hourly rate would be the same.

Whilst she is reliable, on time and does what I ask her to do, it's the general attitude I don't like and feel like I'm constantly having to watch her.

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jannier · 22/09/2021 13:01

Wow you could find a registered inspected and insured childminder who would give both a dinner for less than that

MajorCarolDanvers · 22/09/2021 13:03

If you want to follow the law its one week's notice.

nannynick · 22/09/2021 21:12

Asking to do a nannyshare in the first week without any rate reduction, yeah that's not a good sign.

It's not working out, so find a way to end it. Pay in lieu of notice if necessary.

Blondeshavemorefun · 23/09/2021 17:39

She isn’t a babysitter. She’s a nanny

But you aren’t happy. Been there two weeks. I would say tomorrow it’s not working out and give her a weeks money

roses2 · 24/09/2021 08:49

She isn’t a babysitter. She’s a nanny

How is the difference defined?

I interviewed someone else a few days ago but she is a final year student and may have a timetable change in November and she will know by end of next week. So I may be stuck with the current one for awhile longer.

It's so hard this year. I used to have an au pair. Since both Brexit and covid it's been really hard to find reliable childcare. I signed up to childcare premium, messaged around 50 people and the current one is the only one who had availability to pick up the kids every day :(

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crazyguineapiglady · 24/09/2021 11:23

Babysitting is usually between 6pm-2am, doesn't need to be registered and is casual/informal.

If you pay someone to care for your child regularly in the daytime in your own home they are a nanny and you are probably their employer. They have employment rights and are entitled to a contract and you should be running payroll.

Blondeshavemorefun · 25/09/2021 14:33

Babysitting is usually when kids in bed asleep in evening

Not looking after children in the daytime

GoWalkabout · 25/09/2021 14:55

A lot of people call this role a 'home help'.

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