What is the deal with part-time nannies if they then get offered a job for the other days they are not working for you? If you've agreed your contract gross are you protected against extra payment?
I'm trying to get my head 'round tax allowance issues. We've met someone who is great but agreed a slightly higher salary with her. It's right at the top of our budget. We really need to make sure that we don't inadvertently have to pay more later if she gets another job. The tax people are saying no you won't if you agree a gross wage, but in practice it seems like these things do get rejiged between families. Can we just say no?