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What would you class as 'too ill' to go to childminder

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Jannt86 · 23/01/2020 12:54

Hi all. I am just starting my LO at a chuldminder and mostly they seem lovely. However I've just seen a newsletter that she's put on an online portal complaining that she and her staff are fed up of kids being sent in poorly and that it's spreading illness and even made her think about packing it all in Shock I don't know what has triggered her to say this but it felt a bit unreasonable and has worried me a bit. It's unfair to take children in if they're really poorly, of course it is, but at the end of the day we mostly send our children to childcare because we have no other choice. I'd rather be caring for my child myself but I have to return to work or I'll lose my job. And kids can get ill really quick. Mine can be bouncing off the walls one minute then just slump and get a fever the next. So my question is how ill is too ill? Coz sorry I can't afford to not take her in the minute she has the slightest sniffle. I would personally not take my child in if I REALISED that she was feverish/vomitting/watery diarrhoea or if she was visibly very distressed by symptoms of an illness. Anything else then sorry but we'd be expected as adults to still go to work with a bit of a cough or cold so it should be fine for our child to be out and about too. Otherwise tbh I might as well just jack in my job and look after her FT because my daughter for one pretty much permanently has the snuffles at this time of year. Am I being reasonable or is there something I'm missing? Can somebody please educate me on what good etiquette is in these situations. Thanks Smile

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jannier · 01/02/2022 22:08

Why do people think sick children don't play? Often they go into a sick play eat vomit cycle. A visit to a children's ward shows you that play is a very strong instinct in children.
One episode of vomit does not mean a child is not infectious.

jannier · 01/02/2022 22:16

@Am92

I'm in a similar boat. But my childminder keeps insinuating that my lo is I'll when I know hes not. The only symptom she can give is " hes not been himself today" as soon as I get him home hes fine ,no fever or anything. I have bad anxiety and its getting to the point where I dont want to take him their in the mornings
Is she sending him home, Or is it a handover comment? You have to be told if z child seems different so if its a handover comment at the end of the day don't read much into it. If shes sending him home are there symptoms or is he unable to take part? Ask her why and talk to her shouting him maybe adopting behaviour becouse he's learned it gets you to come.
jannier · 03/02/2026 18:57

KellyHall · 25/01/2020 09:28

Childminders weren't enough for my family's needs, that's why we chose a nursery.

What if the childminder is ill? What if your child is coughing and has green snot bit is capable of joining in with everything?

My child goes to nursery unless she's so ill I'd have to scrape her up and deliver her there in a floppy mess, or she's been puking/had explosive poos - just the same as me going to work.

If they are runny nosed they go in....but what your describing is bug spreading and irresponsible nursery shouldnt accept it either.

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