Hello, after my mum has admitted that she can’t copy with the children for over nights or the bedtime routine anymore (due to her age, not because my children are frightful. I am an older mum myself so she is older), I am considering a nanny who offers baby sitting so I can go out with my husband and or older daughter occasionally. I am looking for someone who can confidently look after a 1 year old, put to bed and deal with if she wakes up before I am home. I have never used childcare outside of family before, for this sort of thing and don’t know where to start really. Can anyone offer advice? Where do I find one and how do I make sure they are safe etc. There are a few lovely older teenagers I would happily leave my older one with, but I wouldn’t want to give them the baby.
Many thanks all.