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Paid childcare

Discuss everything related to paid childcare here, including childminders, nannies, nurseries and au pairs.

Nanny /au pair

8 replies

Countryandconfused · 13/12/2019 13:02

We have an 8month old little girl and both work from home where our business is based. I have been on maternity leave and will be until dd is a year . We have had a fabulous girl for a few hours a week for the last 3 month help with dd. Highly qualified , warm and interactive and dd loves her . However she has another job too and with me going back to work the hours won’t suits .
We are looking for someone to do 5 half days a week as with lots of the work dd can be with me . Weekends off. I’m wondering should we be looking for a nanny or aupair . Dd is very young and I get the impression that aupairs are young students ? We have lots of space to have someone live in if they preferred but they wouldn’t really need to as their hours wouldn’t be hugely demanding . What should a nanny/aupair cost for those hours ?

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Finfintytint · 13/12/2019 13:05

Au pairs are not suitable for a baby but you may struggle to find a nanny with limited hours.

NannyR · 13/12/2019 13:10

Half days might work out for a nanny who has another job before and after school and time off during the day.

notnowmaybelater · 13/12/2019 13:14

You can get grandparent aged Au-Pairs - Google "granny Au-Pair" or similar. They'd expect to live in - retirees including early retirees of 50+ looking for an affordable way to travel and see the world, maybe improve their English for fun. Worth a thought given your child's age.

Countryandconfused · 13/12/2019 13:20

Thanks for your replies . Will look in to older aupairs and look at nannies too.

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underneaththeash · 14/12/2019 18:14

Au pairs aren't recommended for sole care of such young children, generally they're on a gap year/ 6 months. They also don't stay long term.

You need a nanny.

SuperDuperJezebel · 15/12/2019 09:51

Agree, definitely a nanny. It might be harder to find someone who only wants half days as it limits their opportunity to earn extra elsewhere. Would you consider a nanny with their own child? I take my daughter to work and have been in a temp role for a while, where mum works from home 25h a week over 5 days, it works well for both of us because I am flexible and didn't want to work full time, and it's provided her little boy with company. I'm leaving in the new year as I have a permanent role but it's been so successful for them that they're hiring another nanny with her own child to fill the role permanently.

Cora1942 · 21/12/2019 09:52

Disagree re au pairs. The OP is not wanting help until the child is one so not a very young baby. Plus she will be in the home, although working she is there for an emergency.
I have had friends who have had older au pairs in their late 20s.
The main thing with au pairs is the number of hours per day. A morning job seems perfect. With such a young child I would not expect them to do much additional housework. I would also pay for them to do a paediatric first aid course. Generally cost @ £80 to €100.
Alternatively there are nannies who might be happy with these hours. But you would need to pay a high rate to compensate for reduced hours and extra travel. It is common for nannies to work 12 hour days and thus only 3 to 4 days travel per week I stead of 5.

lovely1001 · 19/01/2020 21:27

Hi there, I’m a nanny. What exactly are your work hours, location and pay rate please. Thanks.

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