Sorry in advance for this boring thread...
DD (2.2) goes to a private nursery two days per week. (The other days she is with grandparents 2 days, and with me 1 day). She's happy at the nursery and it has been super flexible for us. However, we're pretty sure that we want her to go to the nursery school within our village for the final year before school starts (she will start at nursery school in Sept 2021). The reasons for this are 1. being in a more structured setting will probably work for her as she will be one of the oldest in the year, 2. make some friends she will go to school with and 3. being on the same 9-3 daily routine as DS.
The question is whether to keep her at private nursery until Sept 2021, or to move her sooner (the nursery school also runs private nursery care for 2-3 year olds alongside the nursery school with ).
It would be easier for me if I moved her sooner, as I currently have to do all drop offs and pick ups at the private nursery as we only have one car. In contrast, if she went to the village nursery, DH could do drop offs when he takes DS to school. So I could get into work earlier, and her nursery day would start at 9am rather than 8am.
Other advantages to moving her sooner would be getting to know some more families in the village, and also not having to move her from the private nursery when she is almost 4 years old as she will have probably have already made some friends by that point.
The main downside is the cost. At the moment the village nursery would not be much more expensive. But there comes a point when she hits 3 years old, where the private nursery would give 30 free hours, while the village nursery only gives 15 until Sept 2021 when she would start her nursery school year. Assuming she does 3 days per week at that age, then it will cost us £200 extra per month for 8 months.
The other downside is the flexibility. The village nursery will not let us add the odd extra day here or there if grandparents are ill or on holiday. Plus they close for 2 weeks in August and one at Christmas and Easter.
WWYD. Move her sooner on the basis that we will both have easier mornings/days as a result? Or save some money and keep some flexibility by keeping her at private nursery for another 2 years?