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Paid childcare

Discuss everything related to paid childcare here, including childminders, nannies, nurseries and au pairs.

How much should I pay?

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DeutschMom · 29/08/2019 11:06

We found a new Au-Pair for our kids, we have a 6 years old, 11 months twins and a baby due to the end of december.
The oldest boy will go to Kindergarden, so in the morning the Au-Pair would help with the twins and after 3p.m. with all kids. She has experience with new born and I would like her to help a bit more when the baby arrives with all four kids. I know it seems a lot but I will be around helping her and I have a person who comes to clean and help a bit three times a week.
We set €260 (we live in Germany) per month for the beginning but I really don't know how much to offer her after the baby arrives.

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roses2 · 29/08/2019 17:56

In the UK the going rate for London is £100 per week for 25 hours and two kids. Higher rates are needed to attract au pairs outside London.

Have you had a look on local au pair Facebook groups to see what other families in your area offer? For four kids you would need to offer a bit more I guess.

SD1978 · 29/08/2019 18:04

Hours are limited, they wouldn't help all day and then all afternoon- believe it's no more than 25hours- so I'd doing before school for all kids, during school for some and after for all, then you've used up all the hours in theee days.

Hwory · 29/08/2019 18:08

You realise you’ve hired an au pair and not a nanny right?

underneaththeash · 31/08/2019 13:51

My understanding is that au pairing is more regulated in Germany than in the UK and you have a specific au pair Visa which sets out the conditions. I think salary is set at E260/month, however, I also think that working hours should not be more than 6 hours a day/30 hours a week, plus babysitting. So if she's helping you between 3-7pm, she can only work for a couple of hours in the morning.

I also think you need to set aside time for compulsory language lessons and pay towards these.

My German isn't great, but that's what I could understand from the info available online.

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