Hi girls (sorry this is long)
Had a weird day today (yes still in pain) we havent done much really, went to toddlers then both napped, mindee went home at 1.30 then dd didnt wake til 3pm so i could have hoovered but i couldn't be arsed i was feeling a bit sorry for myself tbh fed up of people signing up then buggering off costing me more in paperwork than im earning grrrr
Anyway nipped out to do school run and bumped into a lady who was supposed to come and meet me before i moved (remember?) anyway she let me down 3 times (the first 2 i gave her the benefit of the doubt) the 3rd and the last i heard until i bumped into her today was that it was 10am and she hadn't arrived after speaking to her husband who mentioned he thought she had gone to town and would call me back asap and didnt, i thought thats the end of the road with that then and thinking i'd had a lucky escape because frankly i don't want to work with people who can be so rude as to not even phone when i have spent until 12am cleaning my house the night before (i was in the midst of the move and the hall carpet had only gone down that day!)
Soooooooooo i bumped into her and she apologised said she had been being very sick on that day and had no idea her hubby hadn't called me back to let me know etc and that now she had lost my number as her dh's phone had broken Anyway so i've given her both of my numbers and she certainly seemed genuine enough and why bother talking to me if she isn't genuinely interested (she started the conversation, i was happy to smile and walk past) so if, IF she does call me (bear in mind i am desperate btw) do i bother to arrange another meeting? If so would i be mad to take her on?
(she seems lovely btw, we are similar in age and both our dd's are similar ages too so would be good and she wants pt leading to ft and i know she has been in ill health inc hosp stays hence the letting me down - but at the back of my mind is a wondering thought that this could be a blag?)
i really can't be doing with anymore time waster's because frankly i can't afford the paperwork or the headache otoh can i afford to turn away someone who may just have been having a spot of bad luck a few weeks ago and now i'm tarring her with a dirty brush so to speak?
I get the idea that people will think i'm mad to take her on, times like this i wish i had a crystal ball.
Sorry to go on and on. Any wise words would be fab!! TIA