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Paid childcare

Discuss everything related to paid childcare here, including childminders, nannies, nurseries and au pairs.

Feeling guilty - advice please

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WoodyOak · 18/12/2018 17:02

Hi everyone, hope someone out there has some good experiences to share with me.
I am planning to go back to work for 5 days a week when my baby is 10 months. I have to because of finances. I'm very sad about this.
I've looked into childminders. Found a lovely one who would be perfect but we physically cannot afford it.
So now I'm looking at nurseries. I have found one which looks good and a friend of mine has a child there so I know my baby will be well looked after.
Has anyone else put their child in nursery for 5 days and has had a positive experience?
TIA

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Holidayshopping · 18/12/2018 17:03

I know loads of people who have used nurseries. They are often more expensive than childminders through-what sort of hours are you looking at?

Believeitornot · 18/12/2018 17:04

Have you looked into childcare vouchers?
What about a mix of nursery and childminder? Can you move your hours a bit at all?

WoodyOak · 18/12/2018 20:16

We don't get child care vouchers in Scotland. My hours are stuck. No flexibility at all. The child minder would be cheaper in the long run - it's the retainer fee that I'd struggle with...

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Jfw82 · 18/12/2018 22:16

Yes at 10 months five days per week.maybe home is better but I needed to go back full time. He loves it there and the staff so I'm ok with it

MotherForkinShirtBalls · 18/12/2018 22:31

Yes, my two absolutely thrived and are well behaved, well mannered, very sociable and very secure children. Nurseries are not hell camps.

underneaththeash · 19/12/2018 19:37

All of mine have been to a nursery, DS1 was 6 months (we went back sooner then). They'll be fine.

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