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Babysitter wants to bring her boyfriend.......

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Flum · 19/06/2007 16:12

...I'm not thrilled at the prospect, but don't want to be an old bore either.

She is very professional and works at the nursery. However don't know what he islike.

What would you do?

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PinkChick · 19/06/2007 16:14

how old is she?, if over 16 i would say no, its work, if younger a bit of company wouldnt be so bad as long as they are responsable and dont use your house as a love shack


ThomCat · 19/06/2007 16:17

okay honey,
now the name of the restaurant and
my cell phone number are on the refridgerator
uh huh,
don't be afraid to call if you need anything
now have Josh in bed by 9
uh huh
ummm 9 30 the latest
now there's soda and chips in the kitchen
dvd player, and i think theres some board games
in the closet
oh, but one thing, just be good

I'm a bad babysitter
Got my boyfriend in your shower Woo!
I'm making 6 bucks an hour
I'm a bad babysitter
Got my boyfriend in your shower, Woo!

Babysitting sucks
but whatever
they got junk food, kung fu, egg fu, Dig Dug, a dog too
And a hot Jew, Mr. Weintraub
I mean he's old but not dimed out
If I'm bad I'll turn around in the corner for Time Out
Aight Josh what you wanna do?
You wanna watch cartoons?
HBO got Platoon, hey get back in the room!
I assume your folks are gonna be out late
go make me Kool Aid
I'm a sit on the couch and masturbate
then call my boyfriend
Gabe and see if he ate
Spit out my Bubbalicious
and get to one of them big fridges
that could fit 10 midgets
Damn they're rich
Hey she left me fifty dishes-bitch!
Let's try on ya mom's minks
think she'll miss these Chanel links?
In high heels you look like Jar Jar Binks
Go play under the sink
(I want my mommy and daddy!)
I want your daddy as well
But if you tell, you'll die of sickle cell and God told me
you're goin straight to hell
Well if you don't like it
I can leave and then you'll be alone
believe me
that's what the creepy monsters want
Plus I'll be taking your TV
Put on your jammers and don't wet the bed
I got a camera
I'll take a picture
and show that little girl you like sarah
Oh and one more thing
there's been several mass murderers spotted in the area

I'm a bad babysitter
got my boyfriend in your shower, Woo!
I'm makin 6 bucks an hour
I'm a bad babysitter
got my boyfriend in your shower, Woo!
I'm makin 6 bucks an hour

Let's make Fluffernutters
don't fuckin utter another peep
I'll take the cookie cutter
make star cookies outta ya skin while you sleep
Keep still
I gotta check the bathroom cabinet
Hey what are these pills?
I'll take the Valium Josh
you take a bag and the Tagament
Stop throwin up
I'm not paid enough
you clean up the rug
Is that Fluff?
I told you 6 boxes of unmade Jell-O was too much
All right kid
you gotta go to bed
I know its only 6
but my boy just came over
and he wants me to give him head
Sit his bare ass on the couch
where you watch Small Wonder
Next time you see Vicky
the spot'll be sticky
cuz I sucked his dicky
and used your mom's cucumber
Don't worry
I'll put it back in the Frigidaire
You can have it for supper
nice and crisp in the Tupperware
No bedtime story
Gabe get off you're so horny!
Josh get in bed
and Freddie Krueger might let you see your mom in the mornin
No porn
and shut the shade Gabe
One day you'll know how nice it is to get laid while you gettin paid

I'm a bad babysitter
got my boyfriend in your shower, Woo!
I'm making 6 bucks an hour
I'm a bad babysitter
got my boyfriend in your shower, Woo!
I'm making 6 bucks an hour
I'm a bad babysitter
got my boyfriend in your shower, Woo!
I'm making 6 bucks an hour
I'm a bad babysitter
got my boyfriend in your shower, Woo!
I'm making 6 bucks an hour...


Flum · 19/06/2007 16:17

She's probably about 19. I just know that if she is alone, she will just be bored and watch tv. But if he is their he might encourage misbehaving etc. course they would use it as a love shack!!!

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ThomCat · 19/06/2007 16:18

BTW if she is 'very professional' and works at the nursery I'd probably give her the benefit of the doubt.


wishingfourgotone · 19/06/2007 16:19



CuttingCod · 19/06/2007 16:19

ye slet her


wishingfourgotone · 19/06/2007 16:20

Her bf may be bad influence though


moondog · 19/06/2007 16:21

My babysitter brings her bloke.He is however so of v respectable village chemist called Graham and shortly to go to uni to study dentistry.

I therefore know that he is not shagging/stealing/taking drugs/trying on my underwaer.


Flum · 19/06/2007 16:25

You can never 'know' though can you!

If I knew him, that would be ok. but I just feel I won't relax while I'm out.

I think she is great to have asked though and not just told him to come after we had gone out (which is what I did when i used to babysit)

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Eleusis · 19/06/2007 16:28

I'd say "no"if I didn't know the boyfriend and/or I hadn't seen his CRB check.

I had a babysitter who would bring her boyfriend. But, the boyfriend was my next door neighbor's son and I was perfectly confident that he was a nice boy. And he LOVED my 2 yr old DS. Came round and borrowed DS once to take him over to aparty at his house (next door).


motherinferior · 19/06/2007 16:28

Our 15 year old brought her charming bloke 'to revise' last Saturday. We made Very Loud Noises as we came in and they were defensively clutching their textbooks...although if they could read in that level of dim light I'm very impressed


PinkChick · 19/06/2007 16:48

yes she may be bored watching t.v but thats what babysitting is!, i watch tv or read mag when ive put their children to bed..getting paid for sitting on my RS is fine by me!
i wouldnt dream of taking anyone along?


Budababe · 19/06/2007 16:55

I used to babysit with my boyfriend. Used it as a shag fest too - till the time they came home early!


Flum · 19/06/2007 16:55

Dhs gut feel is , no so is mine but I think we might be being a bit reactive.

I think I will ask her to bring him over to meet us and the kids the day before so they won't be scared if stillup.

If he can't bwe arsed then its obviously not the right thing is it.

I think I would be totally ok, if I already knew him.

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PinkChick · 19/06/2007 16:56

you would def have to meet him first, even more so your children have to meet him!, but id still say no!


divastrop · 19/06/2007 17:01

i was asked to take over my older sister's babysitting job after the 2 boys(age 9 and 11)went downstairs to find my sister and her boyfriend's best mate shagging on the sofa

i saw the younger lad about 10 years later and he told me the whole incident had left him quite traumatised

i think he was joking.


fizzbuzz · 19/06/2007 17:17

I would say no.

Babysitting when we were young always meant the only place where you could have a shag when you were young desperate and horny.....

No no no


Eleusis · 19/06/2007 17:19

There was once a VERY funny thread about someone who came home in the middle of the day (unexpectedly) and caught au pair and her boyfriend in the middle of it on the living room floor. It was so funny, and I wish I could find it to post a link.


FairyOnTheChristmasTree · 19/06/2007 18:33

Oh yes Eleusis, on her new rug! That was very funny indeed!


FairyOnTheChristmasTree · 19/06/2007 18:36

this is the link to the aupair who the mumsnetter caught shagging her boyfriend!


nannynick · 19/06/2007 18:36

No... your agreement is with her, not with anyone else. You don't know him... the children haven't met him... and he may not be cleared to work with children.

Either she comes alone, or she doesn't come at all.


Phraedd · 19/06/2007 18:41

When i was younger, I used to take my boyfriend with me.

We both respected that we were in someone elses house and didn't do anything at all that we wouldn't want to be seen doing. ie no further than holding hands.

I did once have a family reply to my question of "can my boyfriend come over" as "of course but no funny business". Do babysitters really need to be told to be respectfull in someone elses house?


NannyL · 19/06/2007 18:43

As a nanny my bosses dont mind if MY bf comes round while i BBsit!

I am 26 though... if that makes a difference!


Flum · 19/06/2007 23:27

Oh god its about 50:50. why can't I make a decision for myself. I am such a softy, really I want to say no but I don't want to ruin her Friday night, i can remember what its like to be 19.

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