Other than my parents we don't have family who could look after dc on weekends. And my parents struggle with the baby and cam only have them a few times a year. How do other people who don't have family babysitters find someone who they pay to have dc? Thinking that it would be nice to occasionally go out for a meal or cinema with dh childfree but don't know any suitable older teenagers to ask and don't know where to start looking for a reliable trust worthy sitter. Anyone use a baby sitter and have any suggestions on where I could look?