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Right, that's PPH and Issymum sorted, now can you turn your minds to my childcare conundrum, please?

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frogs · 07/06/2007 11:17

The dust is finally settling on our housemove (and dust is also much in evidence in the house itself, but that's another story). Ds has just started Y3 in his new school, and dd2 has been offered a full-time school nursery place in a local school (not the same one as ds, inconveniently). I work from home and can do a reasonable amount during school hours, but also need 2-3 longer days where I can work uninterrupted until 5.30 or 6. Ds has the option of after-school club, but dd2 doesn't as they only take over 5's (she's 3.5).

So...

From September I will need someone to do the following: pick up ds (7) at 3.15 from his school, sprint down the hill to pick up dd2 from her school at 3.30 (this is tight but just about feasible), keep them productively occupied for a couple of hours (I'm thinking park/playground/swimming), and then bring them home, possibly including preparing supper and feeding them. Days and times could be pretty flexible.

I know this sounds like an aupair gig, but we really don't have space to have someone living in ds and dd2 are already sharing a bedroom much to ds's disgust. Also dh is deeply anti the notion of a resident teenager, and I'm inclined to agree with him. I was thinking of advertising in Simply Childcare for after-school arrangement, maybe a nanny-share or mother with own child. But not sure if I'm approaching it the right way does anyone have any other helpful suggestions? We're in North London btw.

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Eleusis · 07/06/2007 14:04

Frogs, I also ask for a picture of them. If they send me a CV without a pic, I reply asking for the pic. If they don't send it, that's the end of the conversation.

PrincessPeaNips · 07/06/2007 14:07

oh didn't have the interview as she ended up having to work late last night for her current employers(well at least I know she is flexible!)
seeing her and another girl on the weekend. Will def keep you all posted!

yes frogs mine are all incredibly logical and fair-minded. doesn't mean they aren't a complete pain in the bum sometimes though.

have never managed a "naughty step" with them though - they don't understand what the hell THAT is for and the few times I've tried it they just sit on it giggling. you can see them thinking "what the hell am I sitting HERE for? she told me what I did wrong, what does this add to anything?" and I must say I tend to agree with them.

frogs · 07/06/2007 14:23

Oh yes, can't be doing with the naughty step. Though for particularly outrageous acts we make dd2 sit on the stairs or outside the door, or anywhere that will deprive her of the audience for the ongoing floorshow that is her life. She is the only one of my children that is completely impervious to being told off, or reasoned with. You can literally see it washing right over her. Most strange, and very tiring. [weary grin]

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