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Paying for au pair English classes?

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Echobelly · 22/07/2018 17:03

We've lost one prospective au pair because she said the English classes near us are too expensive, so she's gone for a family in a different city where they are cheaper, which I totally understand (we are in London).

Am considering whether we should perhaps offer to go halves for classes when speaking to other au pairs. Our first two APs have been older and spoken quite good English, so didn't really need classes, so I'm not sure what's normal, which is why I am asking.

This time we want to try someone younger who might stay longer, as really I think the older ones tend to be looking for a foothold to get a job here, which is fine but does mean they're not likely to give you more than 6 months.

The next girl we are talking to seems very nice but I can tell is likely to have relatively few financial means and might need help with costs.

To give you a picture, where we are, 6 months of 6 hours of lessons a week at our two nearest schools are £650-720, 9 hours a week £910- £1020... and it looks like they need to be paid upfront, but I can ask what the options are. Obviously paying upfront would not be ideal, as you're then out of pocket if the placement doesn't work out.

One of them also does a Saturday morning class at £300 a term for 3 hours a week, which seems pretty reasonable but is obviously less time and may not suit everyone, especially if they'd like to get a weekend job.

I guess we'll have to mention upfront we will contribute to class costs so they know that's an option.

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NotSuchASmugMarriedNow1 · 22/07/2018 17:46

What if you pay upfront and she leaves?

Echobelly · 22/07/2018 18:36

Yes, I mentioned that above that I wouldn't be keen to pay upfront in case of exactly that.

I think I need to ask the schools what the options are - ie, can we do 'pay as we go', could we make some arrangement that protects it etc, transfer another au pair to the place if necessary etc.

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OVienna · 23/07/2018 12:32

This is really tricky. In our area, the costs for English classes at the local college have really gone up and also the timings aren't helpful for APs who generally have to do school pickups. I would offer they payment as a 'bonus' after they've completed the term and/or passed the relevant exam. You don't want to be paying and have them not attend either. The au pair we had earlier in the year who left early somehow got her money back (this should have been a clue she was going) so you might be able to organise this or transfer the lessons on.

roses2 · 23/07/2018 13:06

Where in London are you? I'm in NW6 and English classes near me cost £20/week.

  • Some councils provide free English classes (Camden)
  • Kingsley School of English costs £35/week
  • Oxfield School of English is £20/week

Surely there are cheaper options for learning English near you?

Echobelly · 23/07/2018 19:34

Thanks, I might ask on local FB boards whether anyone knows of them. We're in N3... the two I have quoted prices of are with 400m of our house, so they're convenient, but there could be less expensive a bit further afield I suppose.

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MrsFogi · 23/07/2018 23:31

Some au pairs around our way go for lessons with private tutors (some of whom do small groups) - may be worth seeing if anyone in your area does that.

Echobelly · 24/07/2018 16:35

Thanks - I can't find any community/council ones for au pairs, but small groups might be a possibility. Should also ask my school care and share list where other people's au pairs learn, now I think of it.

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