Hi
We've never had an au pair before but I'm looking into it before the birth of our third child.
We have a friends and family with contacts in South America, and I was wondering whether it would be better to ask around via those avenues for someone, who is potentially known to people we trust, or to go through an official agency, who will have structured arrangements and references etc.
My concern with a South American contact is that if it doesn't work out they will be a very long and expensive journey from home. Also well-meaning contacts might not know them that well.
My concern with an Agency person is they are totally unknown to us and won't know anyone at all here, or have any way of asking a trusted person about us.
Has anyone got any advice or experience? Thank you!