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How much does childcare cost?

37 replies

hollowtree · 20/01/2018 12:33

Just that really. If you use childcare, what does it cost you? What type of childcare do you use? Ages of DC would also be useful, thanks everyone!

PS: totally clueless FTM here

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WipsGlitter · 20/01/2018 12:52

It will vary depending on where you live. I'm in NI and a daycare place ie all day care; four days a week was c£800 per month. But that was a few years ago.

hollowtree · 20/01/2018 12:55

wips Shock that sounds a lot! Or is it relatively cheap? I don't know!

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Lules · 20/01/2018 12:57

It varies hugely so I don’t think this will help you. When I was in London I paid £95 per day for nursery. You could get cheaper and this was in a very expensive area. Now I’m in the SE and it’s £70 per day. Cheaper for over 3s because of different ratios and you get your 15/30 hours free too.

SleepingInYourFlowerbed · 20/01/2018 12:59

What area do you live in?

hollowtree · 20/01/2018 13:00

Lules yes I see what you mean... basically I am trying to weigh up whether it actually would make financial sense for me to return to work. I earn minimum wage as a waitress so I'm guessing not!

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Tisfortired · 20/01/2018 13:01

DS is 4, in private Nursery 3 days a week. He gets 30 free hours so now costs us about £250 a month.

hollowtree · 20/01/2018 13:01

Midlands, on the Oxfordshire/Warwickshire boarder

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KadabrasSpoon · 20/01/2018 13:01

Depends where you are and age of child. Ratios are smaller for younger children so generally more expensive.

hollowtree · 20/01/2018 13:02

Tis now that sounds doable! Might have to wait a couple of years then!

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hollowtree · 20/01/2018 13:03

My maternity ends in March... might have to beg the GPs I think! Or not go back

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mustbemad17 · 20/01/2018 13:05

I was paying £650 a month for DD but that was 8am - 6pm five days a week

KadabrasSpoon · 20/01/2018 13:05

We qualify for the 30 hours but no nurseries offer it near us so using 15 for DS age 3.
3 year old about £400-500 per month for 3 days
2 year old £700 ish
Depends on how the days fall in the month hence it varies a little.
Small nursery in south East.

Take a look at a few and get an idea of prices and what you like. Prices will vary even within an area. We could have got a cheaper nursery but much preferred the one we are using.

Tisfortired · 20/01/2018 13:06

Hollowtree, if you can I would. We were paying the full price for the 3 days until January last year, about £600 a month and it was crippling us! We considered taking him out a couple of times but kept at it because he loved going so much.

hollowtree · 20/01/2018 13:11

It just doesn't seem worth it all... I just used an app to check prices in our area. After childcare I would be earning £2.02 an hour ☹ what a depressing thought. And I would be working bloody hard for that money too

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KadabrasSpoon · 20/01/2018 13:12

Do you have a partner? We both went part time so we could both keep our career going and cut the childcare bill.
I appreciate this isn't an option for everyone though.

wewentoutonsunday · 20/01/2018 13:19

It isn't just £2 an hour though, OP.

It is staying in a job, which means you won't have to look for another one. It is continuous employment from a contributions POV. It is independence, an opportunity to do something for yourself.

Many people on here keep jobs going for that reason; others feel that the time spent working and away from their DC is not worth those things. It is the individual's choice.

MaverickSnoopy · 20/01/2018 13:27

I'd you're a waitress and on shifts then that could prove tricky for childcare which is usually set agreed hours. Equally if you're a waitress, do you have a partner that you could work opposite hours to?

A full time nursery place in Oxon is between £1k - £1.2k but childminders are cheaper (£4/hr). Would becoming a childminder yourself appeal to you?

iammeegan · 20/01/2018 13:51

Also take into consideration that you will need to drop off before work and they will be there after you finish, also paying for food. When I realised this it meant I was earning nothing. For example:

I start work at 9, ds would need to be dropped off for 8.15. I finish at 5 and he would need to stay there until 5.45. So I had to pay an extra 1.5 hours and £2 per day for lunch.

Have a look at entitled to, you might be eligible for tax credits to help cover childcare

Shadowboy · 20/01/2018 14:03

We have 2 kids. Nearly 4 and nearly 16months. They have nursery 4 ful day’s a week (8am-5.30pm) the eldest has 3 funded days but I still pay for day 4 and food on all 4 days. So between the two of them it averages £850 a month. Before the funded hours we paid £1300 per month roughly.

harlaandgoddard · 20/01/2018 14:19

What kind of shifts would you be working as a waitress? Could you get some evening/weekend work around your DP?

Preschool is much cheaper than nursery BTW (£23 per day for me in SLDN), but they will only take kids from 2 and it’s only open 9-3. I work nights so manage to earn a full time wage this way without costing much (sleep while DD is there).

mrscee · 20/01/2018 15:59

When my twins were in daycare for 2 days 8-6 it cost £1100 a month this was from aged 1 very expensive didn't make it worth going to work but I thankfully had a supportive dh who helped.

bluechameleon · 20/01/2018 16:04

My child minder just went up from 4.50 to 5.00 per hour. Dinner is an extra 1.50. I'm in Bedfordshire.

Cheekyandfreaky · 20/01/2018 16:07

Midlands, nursery, about £830 a month full time. Dd gets 30 hours free which makes a big difference now but it’s still just over £500 for a full time space. Childcare vouchers helps- they come out of mine and my husbands pay before tax. It probably saves us a couple of hundred pounds a month.

NapQueen · 20/01/2018 16:09

What does your OH earn? If its also low you could qualify for tax credits which would help towards childcare.

Inthenightsea · 20/01/2018 16:10

@Tisfortired why do you pay 250 if he gets 30 free Hrs?
Does your child do more than 30 Hrs?