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Husband:( divorce ??

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Xmaxsmumx · 18/12/2017 19:18

Having troubles in my marriage basically my husbands a tit and doesn't appreciate anything. He also thinks if I see my mum for an hour I then have to equal that out and see his mum for an hour 🙄
Anyway my question is, this may only be the case while our son is so young (6 months) and he's trying to get used to everything, accept I'm with our baby more than him so unfortunately I probably do know our soon better etc etc .. I don't want to be a broken family.
Please somebody give me tips on basically pretending to be happy for our baby? Or do
You think if I went to a marriage counsellor they'd help me vent and id be better?? Because my husband also doesn't understand that babies pick up on friction and will happily argue and be agreesive while he's in the house.
This is a genuine question

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jannier · 21/12/2017 16:12

Sorry but I get there are reasons why you don't want to leave baby with mil or to go to hers but she is still gran and you don't actually seem to want her to be. Why cant you arrange a catch up with her at your house for tea after hubby gets home? Why cant you meet fro a coffee....smoking and friends wouldn't be an option then. You don't have to do it every week but once a fortnight maybe. Why try to pull him away from his mother by saying see her on his own baby is his too.

Linda1981 · 11/02/2018 08:38

Hi there, how are you getting on? Has your situation improved?

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