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Paid childcare

Discuss everything related to paid childcare here, including childminders, nannies, nurseries and au pairs.

Calling all childminders...

17 replies

thatmakesmehappy · 12/12/2017 11:32

Hi everyone!
My little boy has been with his child minder for 6 months, we love her to bits and so does my son! He had never been away from me for longer than an hour before going to her, so took him a while to settle, but she's been fab and I've loved seeing him come on in leaps and bounds.
Anyway, now to the point. I'd like to get her a nice Christmas present but haven't a clue what to get! I know she's a single parent of 2 and money is tight, but she works really hard to make sure they are provided for. Anyone got any ideas for something they would really appreciate for a gift. Around £25-50.
I'd be really grateful.

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FrostyThirties0 · 12/12/2017 12:18

What about a cinema voucher? Treats like that might be rare and it’s lovely to do things like that with just your own dc.

FrostyThirties0 · 12/12/2017 12:19

Mostly though, please tell her how fab she is! Write it in a card so she can read it again and again. That is always wonderful to read and show others.

Twofishfingers · 12/12/2017 12:25

Nice hand cream, as we wash our hands all the time. A bottle of wine, we need it sometimes! a cinema voucher, a nice smelly candle, something a bit luxurious that she will not get for herself.

thatmakesmehappy · 12/12/2017 18:13

Thank you all!
I've done some photo Christmas cards this year for family, so will write a nice message to her in one. Those are all great suggestions. Maybe I'll make a basket of goodies for her? Candle, hand cream, wine, chocolates?
Think she will like that?

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Adviceplease360 · 12/12/2017 18:16

I am not a childminder but if times are tough, she may appreciate a gift card or bonus bonds?

Wollstonecraft1 · 12/12/2017 18:18

I think people get a lot of chocs and wine at Christmas. Depending on the age of her children, a cinema voucher/restaurant voucher would be perfect if there is one in your local. Tesco does a voucher that can be used at lots of chain restaurants.

Phillipa12 · 12/12/2017 18:19

Im a single mum of 3 and money is always tight at xmas, if i were asked what i would really like it would be a hamper of nice food like chocolates, wine, biscuits, that i could enjoy with my children.

Impostress99 · 12/12/2017 18:33

Watching!!

Nicadooby · 13/12/2017 05:32

I’m a childminder and the things I love the most is the nice things my parents have written/said to me. I don’t like wine so would be wasted on me and people can be funny about smellys too.

I think the cinema/meal voucher is a perfect idea as if needs be they could be used as a family treat if she couldn’t get a baby sitter.

glenthebattleostrich · 13/12/2017 05:53

A voucher for them to do something as a family would be lovely.

The Children are sharing their home and mum with yours. Childminding can be hard on the whole family.

jannier · 13/12/2017 07:52

If she's single a cinema voucher may be tricky to use and end up on a children's film unless it goes with the offer of childcare.....worth thinking about.
Our children do loose out a lot having to share mummy when they are hurt upset or need a listening ear after school as well as their toys every day, so maybe a day out voucher that treats the whole family would be nice.

thatmakesmehappy · 13/12/2017 17:46

My only concern about a day out or a meal voucher would be that it wouldn't be enough to cover the whole thing. £50 doesn't really go that far these days anymore and I wouldn't want her to have to pay out further because she felt she had to use it, if that makes sense?

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LoveSchoolHolidays · 13/12/2017 17:55

I'm a childminder and a cinema voucher worth £50 would be a fantastic gift, it would cover the cost for me and my 2 little ones to go and see a film. It would end up being a kids movie but that's what I would want to do as it is so expensive to take them to the movies these days.

Chocs/wine etc are lovely to receive but not very personal and if you give her a card with what you have written here, it would be a gift in itself for me. We often feel unappreciated so it is always wonderful to here how highly parents feel about us

Maryann1975 · 16/12/2017 23:35

I’m a cm. buying food/wine/hand cream- do you know she uses that kind of thing? Or what her favourite chocs are? If not, try and find out. I don’t really drink wine, so when I’m given a bottle I don’t really appreciate it.

I’d really like a cinema voucher. Find out how much tickets would be for her and dc and add a bit on for snacks/drinks so it doesn’t cost her anything for a nice treat with her family. I’d love that and it really wouldn’t bother me that it was a kids film I was seeing. I’d just be happy it was free for me to watch.

Fundays12 · 19/12/2017 09:58

I bought my childminder some scentsy waxes from a consultant who knows the scents she likes. I know she really likes scentsy but I will get her something else maybe wine as she enjoys a glass in a Friday night.

iamyourequal · 19/12/2017 20:35

Hi OP. What a lovely gesture £25-£50 for a gift for CM is very generous I'm sure she will appreciate your gift. If they live near a cinema a voucher to use as a family would be a good idea. Hard to suggest other vouchers without knowing more about them or age of her kids. I was a childminder for a while and loved receiving chocolates, wine and especially cards with a nice message. The hamper is a nice idea, but might only work if you know what she likes..

TinyNoks · 30/01/2018 16:47

Hello all,

I am new to this. I am looking for a childminder please in Ibstock. Anyone know anyone? Please help

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