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Walking outdoor footwear into the house.....

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Mercury · 30/03/2007 19:54

Tell me, is it me or does anyone else feel the same way or have the same experiences? We do not as a family, ever wear outdoor footwear indoors and mindees understand this too when at an appropriate age.
My perpetual problem is that none of my mindees parents have the courtesy to do the same. It isn't that I am houseproud - that would be difficult as a CM - but that it is my home and often with crawling babies here who usually at the same stage are teething and so hands in the mouth and on the floor leaves them very vulnerable to picking up germs from whatever has been "walked in". It makes sterilising everything a complete waste of time. With every parent twice a day every day, walking their often wet and sometimes muddy outdoor footwear onto my carpets leaves me very upset.
I have tried to keep parents to the hall and have bought an extra doormat to give them plenty of space to get in, often with both parents, numerous bags and car seats too but even that doesn't work. The mindees nearly always take their parent's hand on arrival for hometime bringing them in saying, "Look what I've been doing". To prevent this would look as if I had something to hide which I definitely don't but the whole thing frustrates me as that then delays hometime as well.
You would think that my family's shoes lined up by the front door and me demonstrating the removal of shoes immediately on their arrival would be a clear message. Even my Ofsted Inspector recently came in from the rain in her shoes without even wiping them on the doormat and asked me about my standards of cleanliness!! I felt despair. What are your thoughts?

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colditz · 30/03/2007 19:55

put a sign up

"SHOES OFF PLEASE"

Spidermama · 30/03/2007 19:58

You have to tell people. You can't expect them to know because I suppose they automatically walk into their own homes with their shoes on so it wouldn't occur to them to take them off.

You'll have to practise smiling and saying, 'Do you mind taking your shoes off if you're going to come in?' or something.

It would annoy me too.

tissy · 30/03/2007 20:03

Well I wear outdoor shoes in my house, and it wouldn't occur to me to take my shoes off, unless asked.

Why not say to all parents, "we have a lot of crawling babies around here, please could you take off your shoes when coming in?"

NannyL · 30/03/2007 20:05

i agree just ask the parenst

also by the time they are crawling around steriling is pointless anyway so i REALLY wouldnt worry about it from that point of view!

dmo · 30/03/2007 22:24

send a newsletter out with other news and add this on the end

mogs0 · 31/03/2007 14:33

Very few parents get further than my hallway!

They're usually late so are greeted at the front door, downstairs!!

My shoes, mindees and ds' shoes all come off as soon as we're inside.

When my mum and step-dad come, I ask them to take their shoes off and they won't! It drives me up the wall. It's partly to do with dirt being walked over my carpets and partly to do with the noise it makes as I live in a flat and had problems with grumpy downstairs neighbours in the past. I can never understand why they won't take them off!

KaySamuels · 31/03/2007 18:58

I think you should just tell them in a polite way, however you feel comfortable telling them (ie verbally, sign, newsletter). This would annoy me too but parents must know this as they all toake their shoes off and I have never asked them too! Do make a big point of taking off my own shoes and doing the same with the kids tho

ssd · 31/03/2007 19:01

I once had bird poo walked into my carpets!!

I try saying loudly lets take your shoes off, but sometimes the parents ignore me and let the kids walk straight into the living room with dirty shoes on

Drives me nuts!

ShoshableEggEater · 31/03/2007 19:02

On my frint door is a HUGE notice.

Please do NOT walk Mud into the house.

I got so fed up of cleaning carpets everyweekend, not just parents but one mindee who did it everyday, despite asking her to take shoes off! She would then go get ready when mum came and go outside to the porch put her shoes on and come back in and put her coat on and get her bag, walking the mud back in!!!! Sometimes you just cant win.

Rantum · 31/03/2007 19:05

We wear our shoes inside unless we have been working in the garden or out in wet weather or walked in mud or s**t! We have a dog though, so our floors aren't hygenic anyway.

I have friends who have a no shoes policy and we always remove our shoes at theirs - it is your house just let people know that at your place them is the rules - I am sure that they will oblige.

deepinlaundry · 01/04/2007 11:54

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looneytune · 01/04/2007 18:30

I have this problem too and have it on my list of things to put in my new newsletter . That along with reminding parents to NOT use my neighbours drive for dropping off and picking up - they all bloomin do it!!!

ThePrisoner · 01/04/2007 22:39

Although my family and the mindees all remove shoes at the front door, I don't have a problem with anyone else not taking theirs off ... except when they have walked through mud ... then they walk across the hall and into the lounge ... then say "oops!" but leave their shoes on, walk around a bit more and then retrace their steps to the front door!

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