Hi, looking for some advice. I am hideously pregnant and it is school holidays here. My lovely neighbour's daughter (also lovely) is coming to give me some help with the DC, (8 and 5) plus waiting in for a delivery while I take the children to swimming lessons. She and her mum don't like to discuss payment, but she'll be here for an hour and a half today (while we are out) and then here with me for 4 hours later in the week to help keep the kids busy and give me a break. What do you think is a fair and generous amount to pay her? She's lovely with the girls and is 15.