Hi lovelies I really need some help and I wasn't to sure where to get opinions. I was hoping someone here might be able to help me.
I'm a nanny to 3 children 2 are at school 1 is not :)
I have been with the children now as a full time nanny for 4 years.
I'm in a situation at the moment and I'm not to sure what to do. We have recently found out that I have polycystic ovaries, after trying for a baby for the last year. I'm on fertility treatment to make me ovulate and try and help us get pregnant as I don't have a cycle on my own. On the treatment I have to go back for scans each cycle starting at day 12, how many scans I have depends on how I respond. So far I've not had to say anything to my boss cause but I'm not starting another cycle and am back to the scans in a weeks time and I'm not sure how I'm going to play it this month.
I was adamant I wasn't going to say anything, shes always said that im not allowed to have children until her children are all at school, but I don't want to wait that long, although I might not even be pregnant by then depending how I respond to this treatment. If I get pregnant I plan or returning to work with baby obviously I'd have to discuss that with my boss but I'm 95% sure that she would agree.
My predicament I now have is whether I say anything to her or not? I don't no what to do for the best. I don't want to tell her what's going in and her go distant and it ruin the atmosphere but I'm struggling to keep making up reasons. I have a scan a week on Monday, after that I'll need a couple more this cycle but I don't know dates or times until each appointment before which makes it really hard.
please help