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Paid childcare

Discuss everything related to paid childcare here, including childminders, nannies, nurseries and au pairs.

Working parents, childcare and pre/teens

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okitoki · 27/10/2015 11:40

Hello. DC1 who is 12 is starting to bemoan holiday activity clubs. He attends a great sports camp with his siblings and they cater for children up to 14 years old. My son would like to stay at home from next year. Technically I have no objection, he's very sensible boy, uses his initiative well and can prepare himself a basic meal. My problem is left to his own devices he'd be sat on the sofa with PS3, iPad and phone ALL DAY LONG, EVERYDAY. I've told him I will only consider it if he ropes in friends for daily activities i.e. swimming, bowling, movies, football up the park but I just don't believe he'll do it without me standing over him. So working parents what do your pre/young teens do during the holidays?

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Strix · 29/10/2015 20:24

My pre- teen princess is allowed to be home alone for a couple hours here and there, but not a full day for the reasons you mention. Her dad is usually home, but doesn't really engage with them much. So I keep her signed up with activities which accept most or all of the day.

CountryLovingGirl · 01/11/2015 21:48

My son is 11.5 years and he is moaning about holiday clubs and going to the childminder but I wouldn't want to leave him all day just yet. It is a long time to be left. I am out of the house 8am-6pm (sometimes later) so I am very reluctant to leave him.
I would still use the sports camp until 14. If there are any days where he would be alone for 1/2 a day then ok but not a full day.
There seems to be a LACK of childcare for this age group.

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