Our Nanny has done a great job in the years she's been with us (works part-time for us and also works for another family). We both love having her as do our children, 6 and 4. She's stuggled to get pregnant and has really been through the mill with 2-3 miscarriages. Apart from these she's also taken quite a bit of time off sick for odd days with colds etc, more than you might expect someone to take.
We're delighted that she's now pregnant and just about finishing her first trimester. Obviously it's a worrying time for her. She's already had several days off sick at short notice. We are really struggling as we have no local 'back-up' with family and when I've rang round local nannies/cms they are always busy. We were always planning for her to be made redundant when youngest dd goes to school in Sept and she is well aware of this. In the meantime, we can't afford for either of us to miss any more time from work and neither of us do the sort of work you can do from home as we see patients/clients.
What we have thought of is perhaps using the school pre-school as a back up but they will only let us do this if we commit to extra sessions on those days each week. At the moment this is the only other option we can think of but we would struggle to afford this as well as paying our nanny. DD already does a whole day at pre school whilst we employ nanny so we would be really stretched. This would help until the end of term but then we have some leave booked and could prob manage with friends in school hols/sending to family.
Would it be ok to ask if she would be happy to reduce her hours to enable us to have a more stable plan, from a legal point of view? Don't want to upset her un necessarily. We had been thinking of doing this recently before we found out about the pregnancy because her sick record wasn't great but thought if we could just scrape by until September it would be ok.
And can we still make her redundant in Sept as planned all along?
I know I'm going to get 'flamed' for this and I totally get that she is entitled to the same Maternity rights that I had but it's really hard when she lets us know last minute that she's not coming to work and we're in the shit again.