My son was born on the 14/12/14 and I have had nothing but bother from my boyfriends side. When we found out we were pregnant we spoke to his sister who straight away said "u don't need to do anything that stupid people do normally when they fall pregnant like get married or move in" well I'm sorry but my son was a lovely little surprise and my boyfriend was not Guna be a part time dad!! So we told his mam..,she called us a pair of "f**cking fools". She has never seemed like a doting grandma but I thought my child would change that as my sister in law has 2 kids that she see's everyday. The Grandma makes out as though she cares but has ever made an effort to come and see my child even though she lives 2 mins walking distance. However she can walk past my house to collect her other grandchild but never Pops in. On the day my son was brought home from birth she couldn't hold him,look at him cuddle or kiss him. She even said she didn't want to see him. This really upset me with just giving birth. Then at Xmas time she didn't give him a card or prezzie even though I got her a card with "grandma" and a picture of my baby on, though she bought my boyfriends neice and nephew. Easter came and still no effort from her wanting to see my child, then came his christening that was 3 weeks ago... My son revived no card. There has been no effort what so ever.... As though she can't be bothered with him and this hurts because she can be bothered with her daughters children. My boyfriend had told her but she makes excuses for everything and I get annoyed then my boyfriend constantly makes excuses. today he took my son without me knowing to his mams who is not 100% mentally stable and from what I feel like as though she can't be bothered with her own grandson. I went ballistic as I don't want my son in a "strangers" home or where I feel like he is unwanted. I feel like me and my son are unwanted and my boyfriend is stuck in the middle, just don't know what to do. Sorry for the massive rant just really at the end of my tether.