I've been temporarily moved from a part time to full time contact at work, and so need to find an extra two days a week of childcare for my DD (3). Our next door neighbour has a little girl DD's age, they get on well and spend a lot of time at each others house. My neighbour has suggested that she would be happy to look after DD for two days a week.
The difficult question is working out how much to pay her. An extra two days a week at nursery would only cost us another £300 per months. Would it be fair to pay my neighbour this sum? My worry is that when I work it out per or per hour, it doesn't look like very much (c. £36 per day or around £4 per hour). Is this a normal wage for a childminder in London? I don't want to underpay my neighbour, but nor do I want to end up paying more than I would if DD was in nursery instead.
[Other possibly relevant info, no, my neighbour is not a registered professional childminder, but I would actually rather have my DD with her than in nursery those extra two days - DD is best friends with her daughter, they all do lots of creative play, outdoor activities, cooking etc, and I think that it would offer more balance that five days a week at nursery. My neighbour currently works part time, but can't work as much as she would ideally like due to cost of childcare.]