I found myself standing in the shower the other day feeling really quite cross. I couldn't work out why, and had to stop and think to myself, 'why are you cross?'
I realised it was this thread, and it had brought back so many memories of a family I worked for about 25 years ago. They were awful, hideously exploitative, and thought they were doing you a favour by paying you next to nothing (but at least it wasn't nothing, right?). He was one of those patronising types who would chat to you with his arm round you, and the Mum was completely hopeless with the children. They actually put me off having children. Then the Mum's friend would come over and discuss her vaginal discharges in excruciating detail
I was quite shocked at the level of resentment I still felt towards them.