I'm not sure really! I am just passionate about what I do, and see it as my profession. ( My own two are 19 & 20)
One of the things constanly remarked on in my report was the independance and self esteem and self confidence of the children in my care. I have had them since tiny, so they have grown up with my way of doing things.
I let the children play, without me managing or directing it, only stepping in when they ask for help etc.There is a lovely atmosphere in the house of contentment.
She liked the fact the children were self sufficient, laying the table themselves, using tissues and disposing of them them selves, independent toileting, co operative play and negotiating between themselves, deciding what they wanted to do, asking me, if they could ,etc.
The fact that resources are readily available and easily accessible even for the baby.
I have a 1 year old ( on monday! ) a 3yr next month and a 3.5 old.
I was surprised at how little she asked, but my network co ordinator said that is because it is evident.
BTW, we have four outstandings in our network of 12 now.