Hi, I'm new to mumsnet but I thought some of you lovely ladies may be able to help me. My two daughter are 9&10 and have been through nursery to school and now have an amazing childminder the problem is all the other children are younger so my girls feel bored when they are there and now we live in a village some of their friends ( only child's ) are allowed to go home after school for upto 2 hours with a parent who pops by to check on them! I feel under pressure to change my arrangements for when the oldest goes to secondary school but am loathed to lose a great childminder and refuse to allow them to be latch key kids like me ( I did lots of naughty things ) any advice is welcomed.