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Nursery or childminder at 3

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Yaya70 · 01/02/2014 23:46

My son is 2.5 and goes to a fabulous childminder 3 days a week. We're really happy with the care she provides and he's doing well. She runs a sort of mini nursery from her home with lots of assistants and little ones from about 9 months to 4 years, with about three or four little ones around DS's age. They are out and about a lot and do all the usual activities you'd expect. The only thing they don't seem to do that much of, compared with nursery, is messy play (eg, water/sand). And they only generally go outside in the morning at this time of year when they go out to to the park (childminder doesn't have a garden) whereas at nursery the kids always seem to be outside.

I'm undecided what to do when he turns 3 - whether to keep him with the childminder or move him to nursery. Is there much to be gained by moving him for just 1 year (he'll start school just a few weeks after he turns 4)?

I suppose I'm a bit worried about the transition to school with him being young for the school year, and I wondered whether nursery might make things easier (he used to be quite reserved but has got a lot more assertive in recent months and he generally adjusts pretty well to new situations).

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HSMMaCM · 02/02/2014 07:06

His year in reception will prepare him for school. If your CM gets out and about in public, then he is used to meeting new children and making friends.

eeyore12 · 02/02/2014 08:17

Having worked in lots of nurseries it may seem like they are outside a lot but unless you choose a forest nursery type nursery then they will prob only be out for two set periods of time a day and if it happens to rain at one of those times but is sunny 10 mins after they will of missed their slot, some nurseries I know have seperate gardens for different ages so not so restricted but they still won't be outside all day.

If you are worried about him going to school and into a big group of his peers then yes maybe nursery a few times a week will help prepare him for this.

Cindy34 · 02/02/2014 08:49

Could do morning or afternoon pre-school sessions a couple of times a week. Have you looked at that option? I have known many children do that, especially in the school year prior to starting reception.

LingDiLong · 02/02/2014 08:59

You're happy with his childminder, he spends time outside every day and is well socialised. He has become more confident in her care and copes well with new situations. I really, really can't see why you would move him! If it's not broken etc. Why not have a chat with your childminder about what she can do to help prepare him for school?

Yaya70 · 02/02/2014 15:30

Thanks so much. I've been going round in circles in my head so it's really useful to hear others' views. I'll check whether you can dip in and out of nursery or preschool and just do a few sessions (most of the nurseries I saw when I was looking 18 months ago you had to do a minimum of two full consecutive days).

I think I'll see how things are in 6 months' time and whether there are still enough little ones his age there (I think some of his little friends might be moving on elsewhere or potentially moving away from the area at some point).

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Lucylouby · 02/02/2014 21:42

Are there any preschools around you? We have some lovely ones run in village halls and community centres. They are sessional, children go for 3 hours in the morning and are then picked up. They all accept the free funding places for three year olds. As a cm I take children to these places and pick them up again after the session ends. They do lots of different activities, have a routine, children get used to sitting in a group for snack time and story time etc. could somewhere like this be an option for you?

caz05 · 03/02/2014 17:34

My LO is 2.5 too and currently goes to a childminder 5 days a week (9-2) but from September he will do 3 days with her and then 2 at a nursery (9-3). This nursery allows you to group together your 2.5 hours a day which are usually mornings or afternoons into 2 full school days instead. This suits me and my work along with other school run so works perfectly for us and is all covered by the free hours for 3 year olds. Could you maybe do that so keep your LO at the child minder but find a nursery where you can get your free hours combined into 2 days instead.

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