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after-hours supplementary childcare for after-nursery drop-offs?

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desperatelyseekingsolace · 13/01/2014 11:35

wonder if anyone can help with this (apologies if its long). I'm in the process of separating from my H. H is still living in the marital home but is moving out at some point over the next 2-3 months.

Both of us work full time, dd (nearly 3) is in full time childcare. She's very happy there and I don't want to move her unless its absolutely necessary but the commute is quite difficult.

I'm about to start a new (FT) job which is going to be quite demanding and in general I won't be able to leave early enough to pick up DD within the hours the childminder works.

H has said he will help with this in the short term but after he moves out he can't guarantee being able to do pick-ups every evening as he will have to find accommodation he can afford etc.

Does anyone know if there are services available which provide a childcare pick-up service after hours? almost like an after-school club or something, just for the hour or so that she would need to wait before I got home?

Only other alternative I can see is a nanny (which I can't afford) or nanny share which I probably could at a push but am very loathe to move DD to a different provider, particularly not coinciding with my H moving out.

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Cindy34 · 13/01/2014 11:51

Babysitter/Uni Student perhaps.

How about other childminders, does yours perhaps close earlier than others? What is the timing you need?

desperatelyseekingsolace · 13/01/2014 13:03

Cindy don't think babysitter would be reliable enough -- it would probably be more days than not. And FYI I don't have any family living nearby. Thanks though.

I would really need the childminder to be able to take her until at least 6.30pm, or ideally and this is a big ask for someone from the childminder to be able to bring her home after nursery. My dream scenario would be to make a deal with one of the childminders there who lives reasonably close for her to drop my DD at home every day and stay with her for the 15-20 minutes until I got home but I think that would be a big ask and would probably cost too much to be viable.

Any other ideas anyone?

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ZuleikaD · 13/01/2014 13:05

Have you asked the childminder if she can have your DD for longer? It may be negotiable - I've regularly done up to 8pm before. You might have to pay a bit more, but worth having the discussion.

desperatelyseekingsolace · 13/01/2014 13:39

ZuleikaD yes I have and I'm still waiting for the response. I think that's probably my best hope and probably worth offering to pay a bit more to make it happen.
Thanks

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MrsGSR · 13/01/2014 16:37

A babysitter might work, when I was at college I looked after 3 kids from 7am until the nanny arrived at 8.30 each morning. After the youngest started school I did an hour before and 3 hours after school, taking them to and from school. Obviously it depends on your circumstances but it might be with considering :)

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