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experienced nanny without formal childcare qualification / salary advice

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nannyPL · 24/11/2013 23:44

hi there,

im looking for an advice. im a nanny and just started job hunting. i received my first offer and im confused about the salary. the offer is a live-in position in central london. 4 kids including 1 year old twins, 2 year old and 4 year old. this role is full time , all the typical nursery duties plus housekeeping - cleaning the house, doing family laundry + ironing and prepare homemade dinners with planning and doing grocery shopping for the family as well. occasionally some random errands. babysitting twice per week. 50 hours + per week. / 100 £ per week. im offered a bedroom with shared bathroom. food provided from M-F but not on the weekend.

i politely refused to take her offer and apparently she got mad and emailed me back saying that im lazy and all i care about is money. now, dont get me wrong i`m hardworking and good at multitasking etc but i really think 100 / per week for all that work is not enough.

also im not an au pair who just started, im mature ( 30 ) and like i mentioned i dont have childcare qualification but im well educated with a bachelor degree and i think my English is good, i`m fluent in German and Polish is my mother tongue language. i have 8 years + experience and consistent employment history as a nanny with excellent / checkable references. (i was an au pair for two years, both families with 3 children. one boy with Asperger Syndrome. i was also a live-in nanny for 6 years - for one family, looking after two girls. )

so am i really unreasonable thinking my salary should be higher than 100 £ per week ? and just to be clear, im not after money, i love working with children and im a nanny by choice not because there are no other jobs for me.

i would appreciate your help. thank you :)

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juneybean · 24/11/2013 23:46

Yanbu!! She wants a nanny for an au pairs wage.

OutragedFromLeeds · 24/11/2013 23:51

They are taking the absolute piss. Unfortunately those sort of people are out there. You did the right thing, move on, look for employment with a nice family. They're out there too!

Cindy34 · 24/11/2013 23:59

I wonder how many aupairs would tell her to get stuffed, £100 a week is more for 25 hours, not 50+

I would have thought £350+ is more like it, probably higher. Look at nannytax salary survey, look at other jobs.

YANBU to say not interested.

Blondeshavemorefun · 25/11/2013 09:18

She's taking the piss

She wants a nanny but wants to pay an ap wage

4 under 4 is hard work - done it one before - but as a nanny doable - but to ask to do general housework and cleaning as well it's not doable even if paying a decent salary

She's needs a nanny and a cleaner

Leopoldina · 25/11/2013 11:21

if h er response hasn't told you what a nightmare this woman will be to work for, the derisory wage for what is a REALLY heavy duty job must! run for the hills, the woman is taking the p*ss royally.
on the lack of qualification - there is some childcare course that can be done part time / distance learning over 6 weeks which is sufficient to count for OFSTED registration - our nanny has just done it as she's the same as you, experience but no quals & we wanted to claim vouchers. The cost was about £200 - might be worth you doing that and becoming ofsted registered as along with the multiple languages and Asperger's experience, plus willingness to take on four tiny children you're a remarkable find for someone!

NomDeClavier · 25/11/2013 11:33

That's absolutely nuts Shock You were quite right to turn it down.

As someone else said if this is a long term career then look at getting qualified because the nanny market is getting really competitive, but a proper level 3 rather than the common core unless you need OFSTED in a hurry.

Artandco · 25/11/2013 11:39

I would say £450 and no housekeeping. How are you supposed to fit that all in and care for 4 under 4? I'm assuming they would want full activities etc with the children

They need a nanny and a cleaner

MaternityNanny31 · 25/11/2013 14:07

She's taking the piss!!! I'd look for £450 net minimum for that!

nannyPL · 25/11/2013 20:23

thank you all. i`ve already received few more offers and like you said the wage is way higher (£300-£450) with only a light housekeeping.

@Leopoldina and NomDeClavier thank you for the suggestions. i will def look at getting qualified after I find my new employment.

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