thanks - I've been self employed for years so kind of know the self employed side of things, and am in two minds myself as to whether or not she would count as self employed (she will be doing work for 'emergency' care nannying through an agency at weekends as well when she can, as well as working for 2 employers).
I'm mainly confused as to whether there is anything in the actual job itself which means it is described as PAYE or self employed automatically. In terms of my work, everyone who does it is self employed, no one is ever PAYE.
Hours would vary a bit, and we'd work out each week by mutual arrangement - i.e we have some flexibility as a family, and I am keen to have this particular person nannying as I like her a lot. We have agreed roughly how many hours a week we'd need her, but we can vary when those hours are. So it's not a case of her just turning up when she likes! but we can accommodate (and ask for) some flexibility.
To my mind, that does sound like self employed - the 'dictating hours' thing is a bit of a grey area anyway - a self employed builder or plumber turns up, hopefully, by mutual arrangement, not just when they like, iyswim.
In terms of telling her what to do and how to do it etc - I really don't know how you break that down for nannying. If I ask her to take ds to soft play but she chooses where and when to go, which category does that fall into? If I ask her to have ds play in the house on a particular day because he's got a bit of a cold, but she decides they will make crispie cakes and then read stories, what does that mean?
I've also done a bit of googling and there seem to be odd tax issues when a nanny works for two employers - something to do with distribution of tax free allowance - which is confusing and worrying me.
Any more thoughts welcome!