I've just been talking to a lovely lovely (sounding!) nanny, about a 2-day/week job. She already nannies for another family, also 2 days/week, and has done so for a year.
I just looked at one of the nanny tax calculator things, and it said that if we paid her 200/week, it'd cost us 223 if we were her first employer, but 284 if we are her second.
Is it normal for the second employer to swallow the WHOLE of the tax bill? And if it isn't, then how on earth does this get broached, given that it's obviously not in the first family's interests to pay any extra?