To cut a long story very short I hired a new nanny at the beginning of the year.
It isn't working out, I have given feedback to her on the issues that are bothering me but nothing much is changing.
There is nothing life threatening, just a general lack of ability. Can't really cook, can't spell or explain what words mean when reading, no imagination for games or playtime, can't seem to keep things organised, asks very basic questions that I never imagined someone with a degree in childcare would need to ask.
I have literally had to teach her everything from the absolute basics. I feel like booting her references up the arse although she did mention when I pointed out one particular issue that she knew it was a problem but had always been sole charge in the past so never noticed by her previous employers. (ocd related).
In that event and given that she has not been with us for very long, could I just give her a month's notice? A new nursery has opened up nearby so I will probably look at that as an option instead. I have given her feedback that I had concerns but things aren't so dire that any kind of gross misconduct dismissal would be appropriate. I also don't want to ruin her career by giving written warnings etc. if there's a nicer way of doing things.
I feel bad because she's a nice enough girl but I know that I just don't have confidence in her. I'd be happy to give a longer notice period to give her more time to find another position.
Any advice much appreciated!