This is a long one, sorry, but would love some advice.
I 'resigned' from being a CM last March. But when I called Ofsted, they explained that I could be inactive for 3 years, while a resignation meant I would have to apply from scratch if I changed my mind. I stopped CMing as I was going to have DC3 in June, and while I was not planning to return to CMing, I decided I might as well keep on the 'inactive' list.
I called up last week to ask a question about the annual registration fee. It took me about 15 minutes of re-dialling to get through to a human representative: I kept pressing button options that directed me to the website, and then hung up on me.
I finally got through to someone, and they took me through the usual security questions. They said 'Oh you're still on maternity leave - how old is your baby now?'. I replied that she was 8 months old. And then I got a lecture about how I was required to inform them about my baby within 15 days of her birth. I was extremely taken aback. I explained that as I was inactive and not childminding, I didn't see how I had to inform Ofsted until/ if I went back to childminding. I was told it was a safeguarding issue, how otherwise would they know to send her a CRB check when she turned 16?
I must admit, I think baby-caused sleep deprivation, and general annoyance with Ofsted caused me temporary irrationality at this point. I've never ever resigned (or flounced!). I said that I could not work with such a Big Brother-led, high handed organisation, how did I go about resigning? The man said "You can just tell me over the phone." So I said "I resign." He said "If you do, you'll have to start from scratch if you change your mind."
At this point, I know I should not burn bridges, but (foolishly) thought "I am not backing down in front of him now". So I said, fine, I resign. Three and half hours later, I'd had my cooling off period, realised it was silly to close down an option, and I sent an email saying "I resigned verbally in haste and error, please could I retract". And I have been told no. There is no way of appealing this decision, I can complain to Ofsted, but that's it.
I have a horrible feeling this serves me right for - for the first time ever - not backing down, and doing the sensible thing.
I've been in touch with my London borough CM adviser: she said she has never heard of the 15 days-post-birth rule, and that this all seems very high-handed and that I should complain.
Any tips/ advice? (I know, I know, I should not have said 'I resign'...)
Thanks!