Hello there - I have a 4yr old DS and 5 month old DD. I will be starting some voluntary work every wednesday morning during term time from 9-1 and am looking for childcare for them both. So far, I have the option of an au-pair who works for a family down the road who will come to my house, a childminder also locally who will have them both at hers (but probably during holidays too, hence more expensive for us) and also a few replies on an ad I've posted - local women who call themselves 'grannies, babysitters etc'...firstly, I was wondering what the going rate would be for all these kind of helpers (I live in north lOndon). Also should I be suggesting a rate to them (I realise, not to the childminder), or should I be asking them what they charge? I'll be getting a few of them over in the next week or so to meet them, but just wanted to get an idea beforehand.
Thanks