I will give you a bit of background here so you can understand the situation . I had a skying accident a few years ago in which my ankle was fractured. The fracture did not heal properly and 3 years ago I started to have pain and have both of my ankles swollen . At the time I didn't blame it on the fracture and after a few visits to the Gp the conclusion was that I had water retention . However the pain got really bad in the last months of 2012 and when I went for Christmas holiday in my home country I had a Ct scan that showed 3 fractures. Unfortunetally I will need to have surgery to fix that.
The problem lays here : in December my old nanny position came to an end so I found another position in November and signed a contract then for a January start.( at the time I was not aware of the surgery)
On my first day of work I told my employer that I will need to have the surgery done and we agreed that I can have it done in march when they will have holiday for 2 weeks . 2 weeks are not enough for recovery , it can take from 6 to 12 weeks .
I understand its not an ideal situation and I feel guilty for having to take time of, I am also worried about my health but I think they are trying to play a game with me.
On Friday they said that they will still like me to come back after the surgery whenever I feel ready but they want to put the contract on hold and restart it when I am ready. I will receive a notice letter in the following weeks.
I don't think they do actually want me to come back and they are running away from paying SSP .
If you were in my position will you believe that the job will still be there when you don't have any contract or letter on hand?
Also if it turns out that I won't go back what should I put on my Cv ? Just say that I had surgery or say about this 3 month position?
I told them that I will understand if they don't want to continue having me as their nanny but I would rather have them say it then let me hang on to the ideea that the job will still be mine.
Long post, thank you for reading and for any advice.