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Lots of questions re childminder/nanny. Please help!

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sarahanneg · 25/01/2013 11:52

Hi
I've got a 2 months baby and planning to return to work in July (approx). We have no family locally so would need child care. My husband works permanent nights Mon-Fri 22-6 and I work as a nurse but do long days 8-20.30 three days a week, then once a month 4 days a week. What i want to know is, when do I need to start looking for someone? Are there waiting lists? I also don't know if we should have a nanny or take her to a childminder. I thought of working Mondays so my husband can have her during the day as he will start work at night. Then I can work Wednesdays and Saturdays so we need someone for her 7-14 then my husband can be with her until he goes to work. So it's only 2 days really when we would need childcare. Except for 1 week a month, I would have to work Monday, Wednesday, Friday long day plus Saturday night shift. Actually, that's also 2 days as I would be home during the day Saturday. Are these enough hours for a nanny? If we have a nanny that comes to the house I wouldn't have to wake baby up early to drop her off on my way to work. What do nannies do? Do they do ironing, hoovering etc as well or just look after kids? Are they more expensive then a childminder? I've looked on childcare.co.uk, childminders all seem to charge roughly £4 per hour (in Ipswich) so it would cost us approx £230 a month for a cm, that's not too bad, is it? I'm very worried about leaving her with someone though, she won't even be a year yet. If she goes to a cm there will be other kids, probably older, what if the cm focses on them and leaves her? How will I know if something os wrong? Please help!

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Fightlikeagirl · 25/01/2013 12:55

I can't really help regarding a nanny so hopefully someone else can but I'm a childminder so can give you advice about that.
I would recommend that you start looking into it now as for the days and hours you want ( am I right in thinking you want a Saturday?) you would have to find a flexible childminder and someone willing to accommodate a changing shift pattern. I would recommend phoning your local family information centre, they will be able to send you, free of charge, details of all the registered childminders in your area. You could also use sites such as childcare.co.uk but you will have to pay to send messages to people and please be aware that you do not have to be a registered childminder to advertise on these sites so make sure you check their certificate before deciding on one.
Yes, childminders will have other children and these probably will be older but try to look at this as a positive. My older mindees and my own older children adore babies and toddlers. I mind for a 18mo who I have had since he was 5mo, he loves my sons and has a sibling type relationship with them.
A good experienced childminder will know how to look after children of different ages and you could always ask her(or him) about this when you go to visit.
Good luck with it all.

fraktion · 25/01/2013 16:42

I think a potential problem of a nanny for you will be the changing shifts. 3 long days isn't a problem but the occasional fourth might be difficult. Also a many is an expensive form of childcare - count at least double a childminder, if not 3 times on a you factor in the extra incidental costs which aren't salary related.. They will do household duties related to the child but not your cleaning/hoovering/ironing unless you agree. A nanny-housekeeper could work if your DH is going to be around but can't be relied upon.

If your husband happy to have your DC Monday all day? It may be okay now but children are tiring when you have them all day and he might not get a solid afternoon nap to allow him to grab a bit of shuteye.

sarahanneg · 25/01/2013 17:51

I don't know what else to do. We've got q nursery at the hospital but don't want to leave her there for 12.5 hours and my husband doesn't drive so can't pick her up as its 30 min drive. Could put her in a local nursery (I would hate it though) so my husband can pick her up but they don't open till 8, don't they? Maybe I could work Mon, Wednesday, Fri instead of Saturday. If cm don't do Saturday. Just worried that work will complain if I don't do weekends. Though we do have a flexible work policy. Wish I could afford to sfay at home.

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nbee84 · 25/01/2013 19:42

I think a childminder would be better than a nanny. A nanny will be more than double the childminder cost but your husband will need to sleep during the day after a night shift and children are not quiet Grin So it would be better for your husband if she was out of the house so that he can get some proper sleep.

housesalehelp · 27/01/2013 22:25

I think a childminder would be the best option as well cheaper and more straighforward - you would be an employer which can be complext some can work around changing shifts - weekends and the 7 am start may be ould be more of an issue though normally CM can have only 1 under 1 - and only 3 in total under school age - go and visit a few and see what you think

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