Sorry this is long but I really need to get it off my chest
Last week my mindees were supposed to be here for around 7.45 at 8.15 their mum rang to say that the eldest was poorly so staying at home. My dd then got sent home from school with a temp so I rang mindees mum and explained that dd would be here tomorrow but it's not catching.
She rang me at 8 the next morning to say that youngest was now poorly so staying at home for rest of week. I was fine with this and it was quite lucky as my dd came down with an chest infection.
I tried ringing her monday morning as they were due back and I couldn't get through she finally rang at 8.30 (over half an hour after they were supposed to be here and the time she knows I leave for the school run) to say that the kids weren't coming this week as she's took a weeks holiday.
She sent me a text later that day to ask if I would have mindees on wednesday for a few hours as she has stuff to do and I told her I couldn't as I'd made plans as this has always been my day off. she said she'd get back to me but hasn't and is ignoring her phone so now I don't know when or if she wants me to look after them so can't make any plans.
Not only that but she rang the Saturday before they were ill and left a message saying she had sorted something out about when eldest starts school in September but doesn't want to talk about it over the phone so I've got to wait for her to come round
It's driving me mad and I feel like just packing it in.
Am I being unreasonable refusing to work my day off even though I've got the rest of the week off?