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How frustrating!

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mumo3g · 22/06/2012 20:48

We currently look after a autistic child for 6 hours a week as respite care. When we first started with her we were told her funding would be until the end of August as she would be starting school after that.

She was dropped off home today and DH was asked if we could have her Sept/Oct as she is only going to be doing school part time. Now if we had been told this at the beginning or as soon as possible we wouldn't have taken others on to start September. She need's 3 spaces as we give her 1 to 1.

Now it's impossible to have her after August as we don't have those 3 spaces spare anywhere now. The mum has said that her child is used to us that she is happy with us and to use anyone else she would have to get used to them. Wish we could help. But there is nothing we can do.

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anewyear · 22/06/2012 20:56

Would a variation help if you could get one?

mumo3g · 22/06/2012 21:17

No not on this instance. Our house is registered for 6 and we are up to that come September. She is quite demanding too and does need to be active when we have her. Not something we can do when the others are about.

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longjane · 22/06/2012 21:29

well sadly parents have learn the 1st lesson of special needs child care . keep your child carers in loop and look after them if they that good, as there are other that will think so too.

bigpaws · 22/06/2012 21:33

Would you not consider having her on a Saturday? I had an autistic girl for 4hrs respite on a Saturday. It worked out well for us - not sure I would want to work regular Saturdays now I am busy all week though.

mumo3g · 22/06/2012 21:53

no we have a busy week and we don't want to go down the path of working
Saturday's too. We take her to one of these soft play areas as well and that would be busy. It's fine in the week as we are almost the only ones there.

Also Saturday's are for recharging and family. Time to spend with teenage daughter.

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bigpaws · 22/06/2012 21:57

I don't work Saturdays now either it was just an idea for you! Blush
Shame you can't sort something out for this family. It sounds like they are all very happy with you. I'm sure you have considered all options Sad

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