Tomorrow DD will be at the CM all day and 4yo DS will be being picked up by her after school. I have an interview and haven't seen much of the DC recently, so if it finishes early am thinking I will go and collect DS from school and get DD then as well. Would that just be messing with her plans? Or would you think "lovely - two children I don't have to entertain and a bit of family time"? I don't want to say anything in the morning as it'll probably go on past that anyway and then I'll come back here and mess around on MN until 5.40
I might be being naive but we asked her to drop the DCs off a little whil ago when DH had broken his leg and I was away. He could just about manage to look after them but couldn't drive. I offered to pay her, but she refused. I said that as she would have them all in the car at school pick up time she might find it easier just to do it then, and made it clear that DH would be expecting them any time from then. She said she;d see what the children wanted to do, anf on both occassions she took them back to hers to play until 6!
If you are reading this I am quite 
but you are brilliant!