We're having DC2 in January and I think I may need some help for the first weeks/months as I am having an ELCS. I'm worried about overdoing it in the those first few weeks of recovery, and also about the lack of sleep as I'm unlikely to be able to nap when the baby naps. DD will be 3 when the next one comes along btw.
I would like someone to help out round the home, bit of hoovering, ironing, washing, help preparing some meals, possibly some food shopping, but also someone happy to occasionally entertain DD or take her to the park if necessary. To me this sounds like a mother's help rather than a part-time nanny. Does that sound right?
But I am clueless as to where to begin looking for someone, how much to pay them, if we need a contract for them (assuming I would), what is reasonable to ask them to do etc.
Anyone who is/has been a mother's help, or used a mother's help can you offer any advice or share your experiences? Is it better to advertise privately or go via an agency? Best places to look? How long did you have help for, how many hours a day?
If it's relevant, we're based in the South East.