I'm thinking of getting a mother's help (I'm assuming that's what he is!) 2 nights a week for a couple of hours.
He's a lad who works FT at a local nursery, but I need someone to come in for a couple of hours, between 6-8, to just be an extra pair of hands at bath and bedtime. (I have a 3yo, and a newborn.) His job will be to deal with the newborn whilst I get the 3yo to bed, or take over with bathtime if the newborn needs a feed etc. I'll be there, so it's not babysitting; I'm not expecting any help with the housework (God, I wish!
) or anything like that, just an extra pair of hands.
How much should I pay? It's going to be in cash (I assume), and seeing as it's not a great time, I can also give him an evening meal if he wants that.
Many thanks!