For the past two and a half years we have had live in au pairs, and are now moving to a live out arrangement. Leaving aside arguments on au-pair vs nanny terminology I'll call this our 'live out au pair'.
We have offered the position to a lovely 19 year old EU citizen who lives nearby and is starting PT college also nearby next month.
We have offered her £120 per week (£8 per hour for a 15 hour week) plus a monthly telephone allowance of £20. During school holidays additional hours are by prior agreement and we have agreed a rate of £60 per day and £35 per half day. There might also be babysitting from time to time but there are no commitments on either side over the 15 hours/£120.
I have used the BusinessLink calculator to work out her holiday allowance so that is covered, but I would be relieved to hear from others that the situation with tax/NIC is right ?
We have said that any tax or similar contributions are her sole responsibility - our reasoning is that income from our position will be below the Personal Allowance level so any additional income raising her above that and triggering tax/NIC is not our concern. Is this correct or am I looking at this too simplistically?
The problem is that direct.gov.uk says "If you pay your employee more than £110 a week you'll have to operate PAYE" and now I am muddled. £110 per week for a whole year is still less than the personal allowance.
I don't want to get this wrong or be unfair to either of us so any ideas on this or directions to a thread/website which explains it (without baffling HMRC-speak!) would be great.
The other issue is about sick leave. What does anyone else do with a live out (assuming sickness absence is legit) - it would great to hear?
I don't think it's relevant but just in case - our live out au pair will be working fours days a week doing after school pick up for D2 aged 10 and keeping a distant eye on a self-sufficient D1 aged 14. Once home there is general cleaning, helping with laundry/a bit of ironing and rustling up the girls' dinner (rather than "proper" cooking) twice a week. D2 is bright and independent and needs very little looking after. The hours are 3.30 to 6.30 x 3 days and 3.30 to 9pm x 1 day. Relevant meals included.
I am a mumsnet novice (somehow "mumsnet virgin" sounds a bit immaculate) so please forgive any un-intentioned misdemeanours! And I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks.