I have four DCs- 12, 7, 2 and 1 years old respectively. DH and I go out together about once or twice a week, and up till now we have used a wonderful babysitter who was the daughter of friends. But she has now gone to university and we are trialling others.
The only thing is, I'm never sure how much to pay them. What is the going rate? We paid Cesca (the old babysitter) £12 an hour, which I know was pretty generous but it was because we'd known her so long, the kids loved her and she was saving for university.
I've asked around a bit but have received very varied answers, so help please! She wouldn't need to cook dinner or clean or anything- just watch the kids for a few hours a week.
What's reasonable?