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Au pair - how to help someone seemingly exploited?

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MisSalLaneous · 13/05/2011 19:33

A general question really, as the info I have is hearsay only. Here goes though:
My cleaner told me today that she found out someone (who she doesn't know, only talked to her on the train) was promised a live in nanny job in London, so she came here from her home country. It's in Europe, and no visa restrictions.

Anyway, it now seems this girl is being paid £250 per month, has to look after 2 children under 5, 7 days a week, 24 hours. The mother doesn't work, but the girl has to do everything for the children, as well as cooking, cleaning for the family, etc. Oh, and it gets better: apparently she needs to share not only a room with the children, but a bed with the 4-year old. Shock She is not allowed time off without the children, ever, even if she is ill. Apparently the mother got really annoyed when she asked to go for a walk once, grudgingly agreed, and after 30 minutes called her again to say one of the children needs a bath so she had to come home immediately.

This might, of course, not be true, but my cleaner, whom we have known for years and is an amazing woman and normally a good judge of character, was really upset about it. She said that she didn't know what to do, but that she would try to help this girl. All I could think of is to search au pair agencies, and Gumtree, and then apply from there? Her English isn't good enough to work as a nanny yet, and she doesn't have the experience either (in this job less than 6 months). I thought as she needs accommodation, and would be willing to work for little money, au pairing might be a good start? Any ideas? Thanks.

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Ripeberry · 13/05/2011 19:43

Sounds like slave labour in a way. But who knows how many tens or hundreds there are out there behind closed doors? Sad

MisSalLaneous · 13/05/2011 19:54

It does, doesn't it, Ripeberry? Sad

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MisSalLaneous · 13/05/2011 19:58

The sad thing is that that family must know she's got no other choice, so do whatever they want - she's now in another country, doesn't get enough money to save up to rent her own place, and even if she could eventually hire a room, her English isn't good enough to do waitressing etc anyway. Oh, and seeing that there is no minimum wage for live-in, they're not even breaking the law, are they? It's awful.

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Beckyboo4 · 14/05/2011 07:44

Absolutely shocking. We have au pairs and I never expect them to do half of the things listed above. All our au pairs become an extended member of the family. I find it really sad when families treat au pairs this way.

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