I didn't say you got anything wrong, I said I disagreed with what you said.
"a reciprocal arrangement counted as reward" - only Ofsted believed that, almost the whole of the rest of society from private individuals to the Minister for Children, Schools and Families believed that private arrangements between friends were none of Ofsted's business. If the case had gone to court, I believe the court would have agreed too - the essential point that turns something from a private arrangement to something that can be the subject of regulation is not that a reward is given, the point is that a thing is done FOR reward, in other words that a (contractual) right to receive a reward is part of the bargain.
a high profile case last year - it was actually in September 2009
it is more confusing - it is less confusing: Ofsted are no longer confused that they have a duty to regulate private arrangements between friends
Sorry if I am come over a bit
on this subject, the fact is I was and still am absolutley furious that taxpayers money was wasted in this case, as it is in many others that do not hit the headlines, by self-important barrack room lawyers in Ofsted that have absolutely no regard for the wishes of society in general and little more by way of knowledge of the legal framework with which they profess to regulate. But my fury must be exceeded by that of the individuals concerned in this case and of so many others who feel forced to back down from the iron fist of Ofsted and make other arrangements at a cost to themselves.
Grabaspoon I think you can rely on the fact that Ofsted will not be interfering in any marginal cases again.
But I don't do politics 