I'm a new childminder, been minding 5 months. My first grading inspection is due. I spoke to an inspector last week and she told me that they can't give exact dates, but she would be with me Wednesday or Thursday this week or next (as I am only working all day on Wednesdays and Thursdays at the moment). She generously informed me
that if she hadn't arrived by 10am on any of those days, I could assume she wasn't coming and go out.
So yesterday and today I was all ready, hanging around until 10am, getting increasingly nervous (and pissed off). On the first day I had to hold off a tired 6m-old from his nap as we couldn't go out till 10am and I didn't want to put him down in bed (and thus keep older one at home) in case she didn't come. Today I had a 16m-old who is settling in and a bit funny at home for the first half hour or so, and very sensitive (so surely picked up on my feelings). I finally got him out at 10am and he's been fine since (as he always is after a little excursion).
Now I know it's just a few days, but what is the point of this? Why can't they say a day they're coming? At my pre-registration visit the inspector told me "try not to be nervous for your inspection, it makes it harder for everyone." Why then is the system set up to build our anxiety? (And that of the poor children stuck inside...)
So, AIBU? Am I missing something? Or is it pointless and cruel and should they just give us a date?