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meeting CM - what do I ask?

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rachael2401 · 03/11/2010 10:34

I am meeting a potential childminder today and I would like some advise as to what to ask them. I haven't yet decided on CM or nursery and am thinking of splitting the week between the two. This ine used to be an early years teacher so I am quite hopeful that she'll be good. I suppose I need to ask about basic things such as timings and late pick ups as my job might mean that they need to be flexible some days. She has her daughter as one of her children - is this a good thing or bad I wonder...
Food, naps, activities are all things I want to discuss but is there anything I'm missing?
Thanks in advance

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GailFawkes · 03/11/2010 10:37

My DD has gone to the childminder for the first time today (I am feeling very fragile). I had no idea what to ask her so I told her this and she was lovely. She offered her certificates, references, examples of the scrapbook she does for each child. Good luck.

BrownPaperBagOnMyHead · 03/11/2010 10:48

oh bless you, Gail.

rachael, here is a list from one of the CMs on here, Alibubbles; it's abit long but covers lots:

Alibubbles list

How long have you been working with children?

What training have you had? Any qualifications? Are you part of a network, achieved a quality assurance qualification, look at registration certificate, insurance details, business use for car. First aid must be no more than 3 years old, food hygiene certificate, Certificate in Childminding practice or NVQ 3, Contracts and record forms

Do you enjoy being with children and why?

Can I look around, see the rooms and outside play space? If there is no outside play space - how will you make sure my child gets the chance to play outside?

Where will my child rest?

What kind of food and drink will you give? Can I see a menu?

What will my child do all day?

How do you encourage good behaviour?

Will my child be with a regular group of children? How old are they? How will their timetable fit in with my child?

How will you make sure I know how my child is getting on?

What hours is she open?

How much does she charge?

What about when my child is sick, holidays, days off

What do you do in an emergency?

When was her last Ofsted, can you see the report?

Top 10 Quality Pointers

When you visit possible childcare options, look for these Quality Pointers:

Are the children calm, safe, happy and busy?

Do children play and talk together?

Is the childminder listening to the children and answering them carefully?

Is the childminder friendly and proud of her work?

Is she joining in joining in with what the children are doing?

Are there lots of fun activities planned to help children learn and play? Can children plan some of these activities themselves?

Are there plenty of clean toys and equipment for children to use?

Is the premises clean, well kept and safe for children with a fun outside play area (or will the child go to parks and other places regularly)?

Do parents have plenty of chances to say what they want for their children?

If there are other things you want to know, don't be afraid to ask. Good childminders expect you to ask questions and will be happy to answer them.

Always take up references. You could ask for names of other parents to talk to about the service

Listen to your child and find out more if he/she is unhappy
Always trust your own feelings about your childcare - you know your child best

Bramshott · 03/11/2010 10:53

I tend to break it down into two basic things:

  1. What will my child do with you, how will she spend her days - to try to get a general "feel" on her values and outlook, and whether it chimes with yours.
  1. How will this work practically for me / our family - so your questions about flexibility, late pick-ups etc.

And then any dealbreakers for you - like does she spend a lot of the day in the car, is the TV on a lot, does the CM have dogs etc.

FWIW it think that many CMs have their own pre-schoolers at home, at least when they start childminding.

GOOD LUCK - IME with my 2 DDs, a good childminder wins hands down over a nursery!

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