Hmm good things to consider, thank you
frakkinnakkered
One 19 month old,
budget, I was thinking £7/8 for childminder or £9/10 an hour for nanny/nannyshare depending on type of care. Haven't however researched this, is just a guess, feel free to correct!
It could work with 1 full day decent reliable care I think. Good point that lots of people must have 4 days.
Grandparents (PIL) currently have DD 1 day per week 10-4, but they find this quite a long day, so wouldn't want to ask them for more, whereas it's not quite long enough for me to get my work done. Also, they have other commitments, their own parents ill they want to go visit etc, so think they are finding the commitment a bit stifling and would prefer it on a more casual basis. So I'm thinking it would be better for them to be the back up/2nd day, which isn't always needed. Sorry, very long explanation there.
The nursery wasn't very good, didn't do the settling in very nicely and often seemed over ratio. Long waiting list for other nursery I've been recommended here and bit put off by experience with the first one.
My ideal from the childcarer is for them to take her out to similar activities I do, provide healthy meals, get her to take a decent nap and have a caring/interested relationship with her. DH, though has a strong preference for a CM because he he thinks she'd benefit from being around other children and as I understand it, you don't get so much of a say in what they do during the day. So, a bit unsure on that point.
kkey21 Also a good point, although some of the work can more easily be done from home, so I think childcare near home is going to be my best option, also means I can work during what would be the travelling time on those days