My DS is 10.5 years old and so isn't at home anyway.
I would rather choose the families I want to, and the ones that fit in with our family.
It is not "pin money" that I work for btw, it is just that the money is not as important as the family. So for all the tea in china, I will not choose the "wrong" family.
I realise that is an unusual attitude. And you may think me unproffessional, well that is your opinion and you are entitled to that.
It is just that it doesn't matter {moneywise} if I don't work for several months, this is the first time in many years, so I am treating it like a holiday.
We are away all of july and august anyway
So I just have an extended holiday from work until January. when the new baby will come back
When the baby comes in Jan I will be back to working attitude, it is just that I don't do all the paperwork in the same way as the rest of you and take money out of wages for expenses or W & T. So the taxman does rather better out of me than he should, I guess.